tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post4106926370437341894..comments2023-03-19T13:24:35.667+00:00Comments on Davy & Janey: Remember There's Two Of You, Not OneAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18145786344268747146noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-20390072245076900172015-03-27T02:01:21.906+00:002015-03-27T02:01:21.906+00:00My partner and I have been apart for about 2 years...My partner and I have been apart for about 2 years now and we've been together for 3 years before he decided to work abroad. It really hurts me alot knowing that he can't be there for me whenever I feel sad and comfort me the way he used to do. With this distance, I got selfish, thinking of my own feelings and keep on asking him what will I do now? How can I accept it and live everyday not being with him. But knowing that he also feel the way that I feel, he is having more difficulties in dealing with this situation because he is not just away from me but also from his family. And when he told me that, I finally realise and understand him and our situation. We have to fight for each other and we should always be with each other even if we can't be together for now. Thank you so much for your wonderful words, it really helps me and my partner a lot.<br />jellyenhttp://happyandsadlifeexperiences.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-36820078040850531882014-09-24T13:18:18.296+01:002014-09-24T13:18:18.296+01:00Aw thank you for the sweet comment! I completely a...Aw thank you for the sweet comment! I completely agree with you, sometimes it does get really tough but what counts is that you both go through it together and it makes you stronger as a couple. Shall check out yours now! :)<br /><br />Jane xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18145786344268747146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-75825840890627120092014-09-15T18:07:27.470+01:002014-09-15T18:07:27.470+01:00I completely agree. Love isn't easy. The dista...I completely agree. Love isn't easy. The distance is a pain. I am away from my love for so long and it's hard to keep the connection when you don't actually have them there to hug you. I learnt that writing letters to one another once a week really helped my relationship because i get to write how i feel and ask him that as well. I love you blog and I would love if you check out mine<3 we write about similar things and maybe you might like mine also :)<3 www.sillycrazylove.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15344285540903726447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-45620412660786103602014-08-18T19:03:02.432+01:002014-08-18T19:03:02.432+01:00It can be quite difficult at times to stop and thi...It can be quite difficult at times to stop and think for a second to realise that 'hang on, have I actually considered their feelings and thoughts lately? I just feel like it's been all about me, me , me.' and it's one of those things that is really difficult to actually realise you're doing it until you're suddenly bickering over the smallest thing with each other, or to even realise that you forgot to check in on them and to understand things from their perspective.<br /><br />And that is true! Relationships aren't meant to be like a stroll in the park. They're meant to be like climbing a mountain so you can feel the overwhelming joy of having made it to the top. I'm glad you and Chris have each other too! It's quite amusing to see how alike our relationships actually are, even from different backgrounds, and different perspectives :)<br /><br />- Jane xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18145786344268747146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-64341162699175684472014-08-18T18:45:33.205+01:002014-08-18T18:45:33.205+01:00I appreciate knowing that I'm not the only per...I appreciate knowing that I'm not the only person who has felt this way before. It's so easy to get wrapped around the "I miss you" and "when are you coming over again" talks, that I'll forget to sit and ask Chris about how he's feeling in his day to day life. There is a difference between asking how work has been and asking how he's been feeling about it. This is still something I struggle with, because I work too. I often I get stuck on how my day is or how I'm feeling.<br /><br />We just have to remind ourselves that we were never intentionally avoiding their feelings. In our long distance relationships, we have to rely on open communication. Sometimes this forces us to just say "I'm not feeling great, can we talk about it?" which means we can't expect our partners to read our body language like in a game of charades. But once we learn to communicate to each other, everything else will come so much more easily.<br /><br />If relationships were simple, everyone would be in one. It takes time spent together, to learn how to bond as a pair, and to understand each other like nobody else can. What you and Davy have is strong, and you both are very determined people. The most important aspect to having a misunderstanding or an argument is that you learn from it, and build upon it positively for your future. I'm glad you two have each other.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06262651814516102150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2120524044761287621.post-56590065290185621982014-08-18T18:43:52.371+01:002014-08-18T18:43:52.371+01:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06262651814516102150noreply@blogger.com